tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-853682237352618533.post5310379340858422855..comments2024-02-10T03:14:06.389-05:00Comments on Shell Shock Serenade: Sweet, Summer Sweatthormoohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14453569102275795203noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-853682237352618533.post-73242857186557454432011-10-30T13:40:00.076-04:002011-10-30T13:40:00.076-04:00C-You're fine...not taking any liberties at al...C-You're fine...not taking any liberties at all, I appreciate the insight. I love your expression "screwing up on my way to personal clarity". How about that, in my own unique way...ME TOO! When I was younger I thought I was "screwing" my way to personal clarity...ah...that wasn't working either!.<br /><br />I do agree with you here. Up until recently avoiding sexual activity was much easier: I was too physically ill, psychologically screwed up, focus on recovery. Now that I have settled down some, things are going well and there is more stability I am feeling things I frankly haven't felt before. The passion and feelings are incredibly intense as you might imagine. <br /><br />So I am a bit leery of rushing into anything so I do plan on just taking it slow for now though it's getting more difficult by the day to do so....but patience has worked well so far...I plan on just taking it a day at a time.<br /><br />Thanks for your comments...feel free to share whatever is on your mind...I find your insight very timely and quite helpful.thormoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14123682411248034307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-853682237352618533.post-25616419932691196922011-10-30T13:04:48.615-04:002011-10-30T13:04:48.615-04:00All I can say is that love and relationships happe...All I can say is that love and relationships happen to be the focus of my own blog and something I think about often, whether in terms of my own situation or other people's. I'm obviously not an expert since I keep screwing up on my way to personal clarity, but what I can share is to never do anything you do not feel ready for. Your last few years of sobriety have been a new chance at life (I hope I'm not taking any liberties here but that's what I gather from your posts), and at personal freedom as you might have not known before. Take your time, therefore, with this wonderfully important aspect of all of our lives, and make sure to enjoy every tiny step of it with your beautiful partner.Ms. Faustushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03191744120373670081noreply@blogger.com